Tuesday, February 24, 2009

The nursery is almost done!!

Deric and I finally got to work on Sophi's room this past weekend. We bought her dresser/changer table (which ended up on clearance!). I spent all day yesterday doing laundry and organizing her drawers. These pictures aren't too exciting since it's not finished, but you have the general idea.
Deric also put up the tree decal on the opposite wall. Her crib is going to go along that wall. (We're just waiting for the family to buy it! Which is no biggie, since she'll sleep in our room for a bit anyways)
You can't see it, but there is a birdhouse hanging in the upper left hand corner.
We really love the tree! Our ceilings our so tall, that it just works perfect in the room.
The curtains we ordered come at the end of the week and we haven't hung all the "stuff" on the walls yet, but that's what Saturday is for!!
I feel better knowing all her clothes are ready and we at least have the 2 big things finished. She can come now!
I'll post pictures once everything is in it's place!! :)

Saturday, February 14, 2009

20/20 Special

Most of you know I'm a big fan of The View. They had Diane Sawyer on this week talking about her special that aired last night on 20/20. This special completely broke my heart. Her special was about people living here in America, in the Appalachian mountains, who are so poor they sell drugs for money or risk their lives in the mines. I encourage all of you to go to abcnews.com and watch the special. It's an hour long, so make time for it.  It follows kids and their struggles they have. In these times where Deric and I are being creative so we can pay our bills, it really makes me take a step back and think how truly, truly blessed we are. Make sure you bring tissues along. 

Here's a transcript (page 1) briefly talking about the families. You can read the whole thing online:


The oldest mountains in America are rich in natural beauty with their raging creeks, steep hollows and old pines. They are also one of the poorest, most disadvantaged regions in America.

Photos: Children in Central Appalachia.
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Central Appalachia has up to three times the national poverty rate, an epidemic of prescription drug abuse, the shortest life span in the nation, toothlessness, cancer and chronic depression. But everywhere in these hills, there are also young fighters filled with courage and hope.

Settled by tough pioneers who clawed their way over the Appalachian Mountains to expand America's borders, the region has produced some of the fiercest military fighters the country has seen. Like their ancestors before them, the children of the mountains are born fighters, and for two years, ABC News has documented the unique challenges some of these rural children face as they chase after their dreams.


Courtney, 12, hopes for a home for her and her family.

"We're not like other people, we can't afford food after food after food," she said.

Shawn Grim, 18, tries to fight his way out of his dysfunctional family in the mountains by becoming the high school football star of Appalachia, while sleeping in a truck.

Jeremy, 18, makes a decision to accept a life down inside the mines, and Erica, 11, is forced to grow up too quickly, trying over and over again to save her mother's life.

'Mountains Are Like Your Mother's Arms'

For generations, poets and musicians like Patsy Cline, Loretta Lynn and Dwight Yoakum have been inspired by the majestic beauty of the land that spreads across 13 states and has towns named "Lovely," "Beauty" and "Kingdom Come."

"I think the mountains are like your mother's arms around you. They're holding you in one place," said Whitesburg, Ky., resident Nell Fields.

Forty-one years ago, Robert F. Kennedy traveled to eastern Kentucky to bring attention to a part of the country that desperately needed help.

At that time, almost 60 percent of families in Appalachian Kentucky fell below the poverty level. The average per capita income for the region was only $841, more than a third lower than the national average.

Today, there have been improvements in the region and many communities are flourishing. Highways now link the mountain towns to cities in the valley, and reduce what used to be day-long trips to a matter of hours. One-room schoolhouses have been replaced by fully-equipped buildings, all of which has helped pull up national achievment rankings. But roughly 40 percent of Appalachia's population in the hills and hollows remains stuck in poverty, still searching for the road to success.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

It Won't be Like This for Long

I haven't listened to country music in months! I do really enjoy it, so since my normal station was way too boring I turned it to the country station. This song played on the radio and I had to fight the tears. 


He didn't have to wake up
He'd been up all night
Lying there in bed and listening
To his newborn baby cry
He makes a pot of coffee
He splashes water on his face
His wife gives him a kiss and says, 
"It's gonna be okay"

"It won't be like this for long
One day we'll look back laughing
At the week we brought her home
This phase is gonna fly by
So baby, just hold on
It won't be like this for long"

Four years later, 'bout 4:30
She's crawling in their bed
And when he drops her off at pre-school
She's clinging to his leg
The teacher peels her off of him
He says, "What can I do?"
She says, "Now, don't you worry
This'll only last a week or two"

"It won't be like this for long
One day soon you'll drop her off
And she won't even know you're gone
This phase is gonna fly by
If you can just hold on
It won't be like this for long"

Someday soon she'll be a teenager
And at times, he'll think she hates him
And he'll walk her down the aisle
And raise her veil, 
But right now she's up and cryin'
And the truth is that he don't mind
As he kisses her goodnight
And she says her prayers

He lays down there beside her
Till her eyes are finally closed
And just watching her it breaks his heart
'Cause he already knows

It won't be like this for long
One day soon that little girl is gonna be
All grown up and gone
And this phase is gonna fly by
So he's trying to hold on
It won't be like this for long
It won't be like this for long


In a few short weeks Deric and I will have those "no sleep" nights. This song was a good reminder of things to come and times to cherish now. :) 

Monday, February 9, 2009

Sophi Update

I can't believe it, this Thursday marks 4 weeks until Sophi's due date! Seriously, how quickly does time go??? 
We had an ultra sound on Thursday to check her position. She is head down and still 100% girl. Here are my thoughts on those 2 things:
1. I was secretly hoping she was breached. I have this low tolerence for pain thing, but I know God will give me the strength and I don't need to fear pushing her out! I just keep reciting this verse from Psalms, "When I am afraid, I will trust in You." I'll probably end up singing it during labor. :)
2. I also had the secret paranoia that the dr. was going to tell us Sophi wasn't a girl. I kept replaying the stress that would overtake me to hear those words. Can you imagine us having to repaint a room, return everything unopened, and store everything I already opened?? All in 4 weeks?? I'm SO GLAD we don't have to do that. 

Everyone keeps asking me if we are ready. All I can say is, "NO WAY!" Granted I am totally ready for her to come out, mostly because I'm tired of being uncomfortable, oh and that we want to meet her :). But we still have so much to finish. Her room is not close to being done. We have pretty much everything we need except for her furniture. I just lay in bed thinking of her room and all the things that need to be done.  Deric and I just pray she doesn't come early! My bag for the hospital is not even packed yet!! We both know everything will come together, it's just hard to do it by yourself. I really want Deric here!! But he has to bring home the bacon, so I have to compromise somewhere. 

Here are some picks from one of two of my showers. This shower my friends from college, Cassy, Noelle, and Christine threw. It was so lovely. Plus, they had my favorite cake--white Costco cake w/ strawberry filling and real frosting!! 
Left to right: Katie, Cassy, Me, Christine, and Noelle

My mom and I
Some gifts from the girls. Cassy made the diaper cake!!